There’s something about being in nature that changes everything. The way the wind moves through the trees, the rhythm of the waves against the shore, the quiet presence of the earth beneath our feet—it reminds us that we are part of something much larger, something that continues even in the face of loss.
After losing someone we love, grief can feel overwhelming, like a wave that never recedes. But time and time again, I’ve found that nature has a way of softening that feeling, of offering comfort in a way that words often can’t. It doesn’t rush us. It doesn’t tell us to move on. It simply exists, holding space for whatever we are feeling, reminding us that life continues in new forms.
At Pachamama, everything we create is deeply inspired by this connection—by the cycles of nature, by the idea that love, like energy, never truly disappears. If you are grieving, if you are looking for ways to feel close to someone you’ve lost, I invite you to step outside, to breathe in the air, to listen. You might be surprised at what you find.
How Nature Supports Us in Grief
One of the hardest things about grief is how isolating it can feel. The world moves forward while we remain frozen in a reality that has changed forever. But nature reminds us that change is part of life’s rhythm—it teaches us that everything transforms, and yet, nothing is truly gone.
Here are some of the ways that being in nature can offer comfort:
🌿 It grounds us in the present. When grief pulls us into the past or into a future we can’t imagine without our loved one, nature brings us back to the now. The feeling of sunlight on our skin, the sound of leaves rustling in the wind—these small moments anchor us.
🌿 It reminds us that everything moves in cycles. Just as the seasons change, so does grief. There are winters of sorrow, but also springs of renewal. The trees lose their leaves, but they bloom again. There is something profoundly reassuring about knowing that we, too, are part of that cycle.
🌿 It gives us a space to release. Whether it’s standing by the ocean, feeling the vastness of the water, or walking barefoot on the grass, nature allows us to let go in a way that feels organic. Many people find comfort in speaking to their loved ones in these spaces, feeling their presence in the wind, in the water, in the quiet.
Creating Rituals of Connection in Nature
After losing my mother, I found myself drawn to small rituals in nature that helped me feel close to her. I began lighting candles in the garden, writing letters that I let the wind carry, visiting places that reminded me of her. Over time, these became part of how I continued my relationship with her—not in the physical sense, but in a way that still felt real.
If you are looking for ways to feel connected, here are a few ideas:
🌿 Plant something in their honor. Whether it’s a tree, a flower, or a small garden, watching something grow in memory of a loved one can be incredibly healing. Every bloom, every leaf becomes a reminder of their presence.
🌿 Take a walk with them in mind. Go to a place they loved or simply step outside and talk to them in your thoughts. Tell them what’s on your heart, what you wish you could say.
🌿 Release something symbolic. Scatter flower petals in the ocean, let a note be carried by the wind, or simply whisper words of love into the air. These small acts can be a powerful way to acknowledge your feelings.
🌿 Create a sacred space outdoors. A small bench, a special stone, a quiet spot where you can go to reflect. Having a designated place in nature can serve as a sanctuary when you need to feel close.
Why Pachamama is Rooted in Nature
When I created Pachamama, I wanted it to be more than just a brand. I wanted it to be a bridge between memory and nature, a way to help families honor their loved ones in a way that feels natural, gentle, and meaningful. Our biodegradable urns are designed with this philosophy in mind—to return loved ones to the earth in a way that mirrors the cycles of life, allowing love to continue in a different form.
Just like the trees that shed their leaves and bloom again, just like the waves that retreat only to return, love never truly disappears. It changes. It takes new shapes. And if we listen closely, we can always feel it around us.
If you have found comfort in nature, if you have a ritual or a special place that helps you feel close to someone you’ve lost, I’d love to hear about it. Feel free to share in the comments—I truly believe that in sharing our stories, we help one another heal.
With love and presence,
Virginia