At Pachamama, we are deeply rooted in the belief that nature holds a healing power and that our connections with loved ones transcend the boundaries of physical existence. Today, I open my heart to share a deeply personal aspect of my journey through grief, a path shadowed by loss yet also illuminated by glimpses of hope and undying love.
I recently navigated the heart-wrenching farewell to my beloved mother. In the thick of my sorrow, I found myself yearning for signs, for a bridge between our worlds. Inspired by past experiences and the poignant insights from the book "Signs," I sought connections through the delicate appearances of butterflies, dragonflies, hummingbirds, feathers — yet initially, I perceived none. In my longing, I audibly requested a sign, an arc of colors against the sky: a rainbow. Perhaps naively hopeful due to the summertime in Florida, where rain showers grace us daily, I sought comfort in this request.
To my amazement, rainbows began to weave into my life, not solely as majestic arcs in the sky but in myriad forms around me — in artwork, publications, clothing, and more, often appearing precisely when my heart sought them most. These vibrant prisms became my solace, a reminder that love and connection persist beyond the veil of death.
Embracing this profound experience, I felt moved to integrate this journey of seeking signs into Pachamama's essence. Inside each of our biodegradable urns, I've placed a small illustration — a hidden emblem of a butterfly, dragonfly, or feather — hoping it might serve as a unique connection point for others. While I can't be certain of its efficacy in bridging worlds, it represents a possibility, an opening, a gesture of hope that the languages of love and loss are universal.
I share this story not only as a testament to the personal trials we face in the wake of loss but as an invitation to explore the myriad ways we can remain connected to those we cherish, even after they have departed from our sight. In Pachamama, we believe in the cycle of life, in the power of nature to comfort, and in the enduring bonds of love. May we all find our rainbow in the storm, a symbol of peace, connection, and eternal love.
Warmly,
Virginia